pre-term labor...

I thought I should probably post a little about what has been going on lately with my pregnancy. On Friday, february 25th I started feeling some pain in my right side and my stomach hurt to even touch. I talked myself out of going to the hospital because I knew Nephi's clinic was open on saturday and I thought that I was probably having some kidney problems. The next day I called and made an appointment and headed to Nephi. I ran in to my friend Erin and got to have a good visit with her... she kept telling me that she thought I was in labor but I wasn't convinced. When I saw the dr. he said that I had a uti but that I needed to be checked on the monitors to see about contractions. When they hooked me up, I immediatley remembered being in labor with Justice and started feeling even more pain. They tried to give me some antibiotic and fluids because they thought the uti was what was causing them but it did not help. I then got some more meds and some more tests which did not help the cause. My dr. had found out that one of my tests said that my body thought it would have a baby in 7 to 14 days. Not good when you are not due until the end of May. He decided to send me by ambulance to utah valley and then gave me some magnesium sulfate that stopped my labor. They sent me home after two days, and put me on bedrest. I have been doing really well but started to feel contractions again yesterday and some more today. I don't know if it is because I went to partial bed rest or what. It has been scary but I have had so much help. I can't thank my family, and my friends and the relief society enough. They have all been so wonderful to help me and so willing to do anything for me. I seriously have not had to do a thing for a couple of weeks now. I am going to keep trying to keep this baby in as long as possible. We want a healthy happy baby!!! Thanks to everyone who has helped and also all those who have worried and prayed for us. Thank you, Thank you

Big Movie Birthday Party!!

This was the treat table!

Here is the entrance to the town hall theatre

A closer look at the stars of the show!

I found these cute hollywood stars and let Shayda write her own name.. so cute!

Here is a view of the huge movie screen

Justice and one of his many presents

Shayda was so spoiled... she loves this umbrella that her bestie Mary got her

more presents

a few of the kids

Justice and his new saddle

Shayda and her new saddle

my movie cake

Justice blowin out his candles

Shayda workin on her candles...

Happy Happy Birthday to my sweet Shayda who turned the big 5 and to Justice who turned 2 both in January!! I know that many people have thought that I might go over board when it comes to their birthdays but I figure that their birthdays are so close together and there is not much to do in the winter so why not do something fun for everyone right??? Besides... if you know me very well then you know that I am quite cheap so it would have to be affordable... and it was believe it or not. Holden town owns a huge movie screen that I was able to rent from them. The cost of the movie screen was as affordable as renting the swim pool or anything else that we would have done in the winter. I also saved money by making my own decorations, and cake and ordering a few things like the invites, and the hollywood stars and the popcorn bags from oriental trading. We didn't do any food this time but we did have popcorn and movie theatre treats, pop, ice cream and cake... Yes it was a sugar high night!!! We had so much fun... we had so many friends and family there. The kids were so spoiled with so many presents from them. A big thank you to all who came and enjoyed this fun night with us... and for the wonderful gifts that my kids recieved! We got a saddle for Shayda that was going to be for Christmas but we didnt have all the extras that are on it ready in time so we decided to give it to her for her birthday and Justice got Shayda's old saddle that she has basically grown out of. Shayda looks mad in her picture because she was embarrassed...( I can't believe I have a child old enough to be embarassed by her parents haha) Justice loved it of course... he has not gotten off of it since he got it! We showed the movie "How to train your dragon"... Justice was scared of it at first and then decided to shoot the dragon with a gun he got. Shayda thought it was great but I think that she was more entertained by her cute little friends and all the ideas they had to play with the gifts she had gotten. They may have not been totally entertained by the movie but all in all they felt special and thats all that matters to me. I love my cute kids and I am so proud to be their mom! Happy Birthday my babies!

Surprise.. it's a???

My cute kids!!

Shayda's Barbie stuff

Side pic ( Check out the cute little nose!)

Babies Foot

Babies arms

Babies face

We went on January 5th for our ultrasound and found out that our baby is healthy with no concerns at this time. I was very tempted to find out what we are having but I stayed strong and it will continue to be a surprise! It is so funny how crazy it has made everyone else that we are not finding out and until recently it did not bother me at all but lately I am getting curious. I know its to late now and I still want to be surprised but I really have no inclination as to what I am having. Clete says he saw a little boy part on the ultrasound but I think it was the umbilical cord. I feel like I am carrying closer to what I was with Shayda and I am as sick as I was with her but the heart beat is lower like Justices was. Who knows. I just I hope I am prepared when this baby arrives in May!

I have had a rough couple of weeks lately. I went to my regular Dr. appointment and had a small cough but I felt good. He thought maybe I might need something but I felt fine. The next day was my sweet Shayda's 5th birthday. I had planned to take her to school with cupcakes and then spend the day doing what she wanted. My plans were changed when I ended up in the E.R because I was so dehydrated and so sick. My cough had gotten so bad that I could not keep anything down. I got tested for Influenza and it was positive. By the way, that test was awful... they shoot water up your nose and suck it out with a tube that is shoved down your nose. It was ridiculous and hurt like heck. All of that to find out that I could not take the medicine because it had not been tested on pregnant women. I spent a week and a half in bed. Poor pitiful me right? I felt awful because Clete had to take over on Shayd's birthday and I was sad that I wasn't involved. It was also Justices 2nd Birthday on January 21st. We decided to throw them both a big birthday bash this Saturday so I will share pics soon.

January has been a crazy month but it also brought me a new neice. Bristyn was born on the 24th to Weston and Mallori and she is a doll! It makes me excited for my little one to arrive! I am also looking for suggestions on an original boy name. We have our girl name but we are struggling to find a boy name that we can agree upon. So help us out! We also started our loan on our house so I am excited to be moving on with our addition. Things are changing so much and I am so excited for our future!

Surprise...

Ok... on the count of 3 say cheese...

Now... on the count of 3 say Cassa's Pregnant!!!

Haha Surprise!!! This is how I told my family... It was so funny to see their reactions. The sun was shining in the window so the pictures are not that great but still funny. Most of them are not listening and Shantel looks shocked, Alyssa looks mad ( she wasnt) and my mom looks confused ( she was)! I wanted to wait and tell everyone at 12 weeks but it was so close to Thanksgiving and with my sister being home, I thought I would wait a little longer. I am now 16 weeks and very excited! The third is so hard though. I have been so sick, and I have had a little trouble with my blood pressure. I feel like I could just lay in bed for the rest of my life, and I did for the first 3 months at least. We have no idea where we will put this baby in our house so we are adding on. It may not be completely done by the time the baby comes in May but it will have a room shortly yay! We are not going to find out what we are having. Clete is not totally sold on this idea so I have to do some quick talking to convince him but I just think that is the biggest surprise you could ever give yourself... and since we have one of each already then this is the perfect time right??? I also feel like I started showing so quickly. I have been trying to hide it but its already pretty obvious so I decided that for my own self esteem... I would start telling people. So there it is... family of 5 here we come!

Busy October!!!

This was a little of my moms b day party!

We got to talk to Jordon and Aimee on Skype!

All the grandkids going for a hay ride!

Picking their pumpkins... Shayda has her creepy vampire teeth in haha

So so funny!!! Weston, Josh, and Granpa Bevan with the silly glasses on!!!

The grandkids with the silly glasses and teeth... Hilarious!!!

Creepy Justice haha... I thought we all might die of laughter from this one haha

My mom and the grandkids doing the fishing game!!!

This month has been so crazy... It started off with a weekend of camping and getting firewood for the winter with some friends of ours. The next weekend my mom did her annual pumpkin patch adventure except that she decided to do it at her house this year. They did a fishing game where the kids got the funniest things like vampire teeth and silly glasses.... after that they went to the pumpkin patch to pick their pumpkins... and then off to a hay ride around Leamington... we also had chilli and spudnuts... delish!!! WE had so much fun... I love how involved my mom is with the the grandkids... she always has great ideas! Shortly after that we distracted my mom to set up a surprise birthday party for the big 50!!! Isnt' she hot for a 50 year old!!! haha love you mom!!! Anyways... we had some appetizers and dessert and cake and gave her presents, and actually got to skype with Jordon and Aimee who are currently in New York. We did miss Shantel though:(. We have been having so much fun and the month is not over yet. We are putting in our flooring this week... finally and then we are heading to frightmares and staying the weekend in Salt Lake. And finally... the last weekend of the month I will be having Bunco at my house and then doing a little trick or treating with the kids!!! I love october... It really is crazy... but so much fun!!!

Pre-School and more....

My biggest girl getting on the bus!!!
All of the kids at Shayda's bus stop in holden

Shayda's first day of preschool... she picked her own outfit and backpack... she did a pretty darn good job!!!

Leamarado Rodeo... Justice wanted to chase the money cow too!

Shayda chasing the money cow...

Clete and my nephew Ethan at the rodeo.

Our Deputy K-9 Basco's memorial

We had some pics... and our friends made a video for him.

Shayda passed her swimming lessons this summer!

It has been crazy lately again... so I thought I would catch you all up. The pictures are a little backwards but I will just go with it. I will start with swimming lessons... I had to bring Shayda to swimming lessons 5 days a week for 4 weeks... ugh. I am so glad that I am able to have the time to take her to lessons but boy oh boy it was not alot of fun for us moms (just ask Jenna haha) I guess at least I wasn't the pregnant one.

We also had a memorial for our Deputy K-9 Basco whom we lost to cancer. I know alot of people do not understand having a memorial for a dog.... but this was very important to us. He was not just a dog... he was a family member... he was a Clete's partner... and he was the protector of many people in our community including the many deputies that worked with him. He was involved in hunting down many criminals including cop killers and more. He was also involved in protecting my husband Clete in a shooting that he was involved in a couple of years ago. We owe so much to that wonderful dog. I wanted to thank all those that came to the memorial... and the ones that spoke and the ones that made the wonderful video of Basco. Many people have asked me if I am scared to live out here and I really never have been until now. He was my protector.... I will miss him.

We also had my little brother Jordon's wedding a couple of weeks ago... and I could kick myself for forgetting my camera but you can check some out on Aimee's blog. I did make their cake so you can check that out on my cake blog. The week after the wedding was the Leamarado days rodeo. I got to see alot of my family, and my Grandpa Bevan was the grand marshall!!! He is so dang cute.... we were pretty proud of him. The kids got to chase the money cow, so they had a blast!

Last but not least... My little girl went to preschool on the bus! I was so excited for her to go because she could not wait but it was a little sad that she is growing up so big. When we got to the bus stop she was so excited and then right before she got on the bus she said " Mama I'm scared"... I of course made her go and she was fine but I did feel like I was feeding her to the wolves. Its hard to live in a town that you don't know alot of people, and they don't give you alot of info on school and such. I really had no idea what was going to happen to her there but I had faith and she was fine... by the way she love love loves it. Justice misses his sister all day long... he follows me around all day repeating everything that I say because he is learning to talk. He talks quite a bit now so my house seems busy all day!

As far as my house goes.... It really is coming along. I have gotten new sinks and faucets... new hardware in my kitchen...a storage unit ... and new carpet in my bedrooms. I have the flooring for my kitchen, bathroom, and living room/dining room, but I am just waiting for my husband to have time to put it in. I am planning on painting a bunch of things as well but we will see how much I get done. Its been alot of work but it will be so worth it! Anyways thats it for now.... wow that was a long one.

Home Sweet Home ugh...

Ha ha gross isn't it!!!

Me and my kiddies!
Us again...

Shayda and Dreyden plotting to attack Jordon!

Shayda on our way home from Boulder! Check out her reflection!

Ok we have been busy again! I got my other knee done, so I am stuck in bed for awhile so I figured I would catch up on my blogging... check out my cake blog! Well I guess I will start with my house since it is the name of my blog...

Well, we have decided to wait six months before we ad on. I know what you are thinking... you have been waiting forever so why continue... well, as frustrating as it is, we had such a long process in getting bids that by the time we got our final bid, it was just way more then we wanted it to be. We decided that we could probably afford it but we don't want to always struggle, and this would make things pretty tight. So... we decided to reduce the square feet on our addition. We were going to ad over 3,000 sq. ft so I think that we have some room to take off thereby making it affordable. This would take a little longer to accomplish so by the time that we get it done, and start the loan process, the weather would be something we would have to work around, and I don't want to make a payment on something that is incomplete... So.... we wait for another 6 months.

No worries though... because in the meantime we are going to work on the home we have. We are going to get a storage unit for all of our junk ( so that we can use our camping trailor for something other than storage haha), we are going to replace all of the flooring, do some painting, and replace all of the hardware in our kitchen... including our sink yay! I would also love to get a new t.v. to get rid of our entertainment system, but that is an after thought haha! Anyways... it may not fix the fact that Justice still doesnt have a bedroom, and I will have to deal with no toy room for awhile, but at least I can get some new ness in my life! I have been saving forever now, and I can finally do something with some of it. Don't worry I am a tight wad so of course I won't spend it all! We are still adding on so I still need a downpayment so I guess I will be good! Anyways... I WILL HAVE MY ADDITION SOMEDAY!!!!!